Current research reveals seismic shifts in beliefs about marriage. People often don't get it that Frank Pittman had it right: the purpose of marriage isn't to make you happy, it's to make you married. They marry because they like the way they are with their partner; then divorce because they don't like what their partner has made them become. Our challenge is to give couples new information to help them celebrate their marriages, themselves, and the times – from the inside out.